Question
What does the Bible say about anger? (is anger a sin, and how to handle it)
Analysis
Righteous vs. sinful anger
Scripture doesn't say all anger is wrong. God Himself is described as angry at sin and injustice, yet 'slow to anger, abounding in loving devotion' (BSB, Psalms 103:8), and Jesus looked with anger at those whose hearts were hard toward a suffering man (Mark 3:5) and drove the money-changers from the temple. So there is a righteous anger, a right response to real evil. That is why Paul can say 'Be angry, yet do not sin' (BSB, Ephesians 4:26): the command is not never feel anger but don't let anger lead you into sin, and don't nurse it, 'do not let the sun go down' on it. The danger is that human anger, unlike God's, is easily selfish, disproportionate, and vengeful.
How to handle it
The Bible's counsel is practical. Be slow, 'quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger' (BSB, James 1:19), because human anger doesn't produce God's righteousness (James 1:20). Don't vent recklessly, that's the way of a fool (Proverbs 29:11); 'A patient man has great understanding' (BSB, Proverbs 14:29). Guard your words, since 'A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger' (BSB, Proverbs 15:1). Put it away, get rid of 'all bitterness and wrath and anger' (Ephesians 4:31; Colossians 3:8). And Jesus goes to the root: harbored anger and contempt toward a brother are as serious as the act they can lead to, so be reconciled quickly (Matthew 5:22; Matthew 5:23; Matthew 5:24). 'Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger settles in the lap of a fool' (BSB, Ecclesiastes 7:9).